When we decide to create a new habit — exercise, healthy eating, meditation, writing — we can get excited and optimistic, and have an idea of how it will go …
How To Tell Your Friends You’re Depressed
Deciding to tell the people you love that you’re struggling with depression is a big step. Not only is it challenging to find the energy to reach out to people, …
What Is Postpartum Depression? Getting Help in Couples Therapy Boca Raton
Shortly after she gave birth to her son last May, Meghan Reddick, 36, began to struggle with depression. “The second I had a chance where I wasn’t holding [my son], …
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse
If you’ve decided to read this article, it’s perhaps because you, or someone you know, is trying to heal in the aftermath of a toxic relationship. Or maybe you have …
Paperwork, Appointments And Repairs: Managing Adult Responsibilities
Life seems full of ever-increasing piles of paperwork – bills to pay, appointments to make, forms to sign, carpools to organize – so much tedious, time-consuming, unpaid labor. Call it …
Are You Sabotaging Your Relationships?
Warning signs that you might be sabotaging a good thing You meet someone new and happily date for a little while. The connection is great, there is chemistry, and sex …
Don’t Just Ask “What’s the Matter?” Ask “What Matters to You?
What is it about certain moments that deepen our ties to others? The social psychologist Harry T. Reis suggested that our relationships grow stronger when our partners are “responsive” to …
A Rational Case for Following Your Emotions
Feelings aren’t as senseless as Americans have been led to believe. In the popular American imagination, emotion and rationality are often mutually exclusive. One is erratic, unpredictable, and often a …
Five Limits Your Brain Puts on Generosity
Research suggests that our brains may be wired for altruism, but there’s a catch—well, five of them, actually. Humans can be remarkably generous. Americans gave a record $390 billion to …
How To Keep Money From Messing Up Your Marriage
Mary Fusillo and her husband, Bob, have been married for 20 years. She met him on a blind date in Houston. Right away, she knew she liked him. He was …
Walking Through Life ‘In An Underslept State’
The National Sleep Foundation recommends an average of eight hours of sleep per night for adults, but sleep scientist Matthew Walker says that too many people are falling short of …
Background Music Might Stifle Creativity
Volunteers who listened to music solved fewer word puzzles than others who worked in silence. Let’s play a word game. What word can be put in front of the words …
If You’re Often Angry Or Irritable, You May Be Depressed
Registered nurse Ebony Monroe of Houston recently went through a period of being quick to anger about every little thing. She didn’t realize then what it might mean for her …
10 Surprising Psychological Benefits of Music
Listening to music can be entertaining, but is it possible that it might make you healthier? Music can be a source of pleasure and contentment, but research has also shown …
Genes Do Shape Behaviors But it’s Complicated
Many of our psychological traits are innate in origin. There is overwhelming evidence from twin, family and general population studies that all manner of personality traits, as well as things …
When Will We Solve Mental Illness?
Biology was supposed to cure what ails psychiatry. Decades later, millions of people with mental disorders are still waiting. Nothing humbles history’s great thinkers more quickly than reading their declarations …
First Impressions & The “Liking Gap”
Most People Are Terrible at Knowing How They Come Off For better or worse, first impressions can be hard to shake. Whether it’s a high-stakes job interview, a blind date, …
Some Common Relationship Challenges
Like most interpersonal relationships, most romantic couples experience some challenge at some point in their relationship. Some of these common challenges may include infidelity, loss of intimacy, communication difficulties, coping …
Why Is It So Hard to Be Vulnerable?
A new study suggests that we judge ourselves more harshly than others do when we put ourselves out there. We all know the experience of vulnerability, even if we don’t …
Postpartum Depression (PPD), A Guide to Common Depression
In the first days and weeks after childbirth, a new mother goes through a variety of emotions. She may feel many wonderful feelings including awe, joy and bliss. She may …
The Negative Impact of Sugar on the Brain
The brain uses more energy than any other organ in the human body and glucose is its source of fuel. But what happens when the brain is exposed to the …
Relationship Expectations: Don’t set yourself up for failure
When you enter a relationship, you (probably) hope that it will last for a while. While it’s hard to truly predict the lifespan of any one relationship there are a …
On Being Interesting
Most of us know and value pleasant experiences. We savour the taste of a freshly picked strawberry. We laugh more than an event warrants, just because laughing feels good. We …
The Urge to Share News of Our Lives is Not New Nor Narcissistic
Narcissism is defined as excessive self-love or self-centredness. In Greek mythology, Narcissus fell in love when he saw his reflection in water: he gazed so long, he eventually died. Today, …
Are there ways of spending money that will make you happier?
Being rich or richer may not guarantee happiness, as shown by ample evidence from the social sciences, but there are ways of spending money that will make you happier than …
To Be Resilient, Face Tragedy With Humor and Flexibility
People who are resilient tend to be flexible – flexible in the way that they think about challenges, and flexible in the way that they react emotionally to stress. They …
Left brain vs. right brain
The two hemispheres or sides of the brain — the left and the right — have slightly different jobs. But can one side be dominant and does this affect personality? …
When will I be me? Why a sense of authenticity takes its time
It is a common exhortation: live authentically. But what does authenticity actually mean? As a psychological concept, authenticity simply means embracing who you really are, at your very core, and …
How Your Mind, Under Stress, Gets Better at Processing Bad News
Some of the most important decisions you will make in your lifetime will occur while you feel stressed and anxious. From medical decisions to financial and professional ones, we are …
How to Recover From Heartbreak
Use “negative reappraisal,” and understand you have work to do—time alone may not be enough. Melissa and J.J. met on the finish line of an obstacle course race. “We were …
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